Welcome to the Community!

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image of conference call of African American women

What You Get In The Uncommon Wife Community

Grace-Filled. Purpose-Driven. Marriage-Strong.

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African American couple enjoying intimate moment
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person wearing silver ring on ring finger on book page
"Marriage Win Wednesday" Celebrations

Whether it's successfully navigating a conflict, implementing a new communication strategy, or simply enjoying a meaningful conversation, we will celebrate!

Monthly Prayer Partner Matchups

You will be paired with another wife for a dedicated 30 days of prayer partnership.

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group of African American women for The Uncommon Wife
Access to our online community

Receive reminders for upcoming events, couple challenges, and discussions, plus engage with other wives as they share their challenges and celebrations!

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A couple of women sitting on top of a white couch
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"Ask Me Anything" Sessions

Seasoned wives from our community will serve as "marriage mentors" for quarterly online Q&A sessions. The wisdom shared during these sessions can be incredibly valuable, and it honors the experience of women who have walked the path longer.

"Try This Together" Challenge Series

We will launch monthly challenges that wives can do with their husbands to elevate communication, spiritual connection, and intimacy.

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group of smiling African American women for The Uncommon Wife
Monthly Uncommon Wife Gatherings

Join us for an engaged virtual gathering where everyone has a voice and every problem has a solution. We'll be joined by experts who will provide answers to your burning questions.

Tameka Chapman's Message to Black Wives

Speaker Author Media Mogul Tameka Chapman, Founder of The Uncommon Wife
Speaker Author Media Mogul Tameka Chapman, Founder of The Uncommon Wife

Today, I’m writing not as an expert, but as a sister walking this beautiful road of marriage with you. Whether you’re a newlywed or decades in, I see the love that brought you together, the challenges that tried to pull you apart, and the quiet strength that keeps you showing up—especially on the hard days.

Marriage as a woman of faith isn’t easy. It demands wisdom, patience, and a strength you didn’t know you had. Some days love feels effortless. Other days, it’s a choice—a sacred, stretching choice. And that’s normal. Real love lives in the small, unseen acts: the forgiveness, the vulnerability, the courage to speak truth, and the grace to listen.

We all enter marriage with expectations—some helpful, some needing redefinition. Be gentle with yourself. Becoming an uncommon wife isn’t about being perfect—it’s about being present, faithful, and willing to grow.

This community exists to remind you that you’re not alone. Your voice, your story, your struggle—they matter. When you show up and share, you don’t just bless your own marriage, you spark hope for others.

So come as you are. Share freely. Listen deeply. Pray boldly. Let’s link arms, not to compare, but to build marriages that reflect God’s love—marriages that don’t just survive, but thrive.

With love and hope for your journey,
Tameka

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